Life with three children is a big change and it is going to take a while before I can say I am a pro, but I think I am starting to get the hang of my new life. Currently my life with three children consists of:
Lots of messes
Tons of poop- Though Anwen is not really the cause of all the pooping I have never wanted her potty trained more. And she is very resistant, I think she is trying to hold on to her babiness. I can’t really blame her.
Barrels of laughs
A good amount of noise
Plenty of whining
Your standard amount of tantrums
Way more dishes
Less time with hubby:(
At least a basket more of laundry a week, but sometimes it is more depending on how much pooping is happening.
New routines
More sleep- I know!! I did not expect this, but you can bet I’m gonna take it:)- The amazing thing about this is that I have not had a decent night sleep in 6.5 years, and I certainly did not expect to start sleeping well just days after bring home #3. The other amazing thing is that sleep is awesome and I am a totally different person now that I am sleeping regularly.
Less showering:(
More inside time- since leaving the house seems to be impossible at times.
Lots of time spent with my children, which is awesome!- Having three has caused me to have to really think about how things are going to work, and it has made me slow down. I am enjoying this slower pace and I think the kids are as well.
Some of the challenges recently have been:
Homeschooling- Anwen has been feeling needy in this time of transition and so unless she is sleeping there tend to be a lot of disruptions while we are doing Ewan’s school work. I think that I need to figure out some things that she can do so that she feels equally included in our school time.
Getting out of the house- Going anywhere takes us twice as long if we can manage to make it out the front door. The trick is actually making it out the front door. In some ways I think that it is good that I am being forced to slow down but there are times that I just want to get out and take a walk and I don’t want our walk to be less time then it takes to get our shoes on.
The poop- I am down right tired of changing poopy diapers, I am tired of changing clothes that are poopy from a diaper blowout and I am tired of having to hose my son down in the bath tub because he has poo all over him. I am also quite tired of feeling like I smell poo all the time, it is becoming this phantom smell that is haunting me. The poop by the way is only because Esu has giardia, yes that was a little present he brought back with him from Ethiopia. He is going on antibiotics tomorrow so hopefully this will start to clear up soon.
Overall we are doing well and things are getting easier every day. Esu is amazing and Ewan and Anwen adore him as do Brian and I. He is making great progress physically, almost crawling, sitting up on his own from a laying down position and he has master the pincer. We have almost figured out how to give him formula without him spitting it all up, usually on Brian. We are learning and each day is a new lesson, some lessons need repeating, some more often than we would like.
















































